I have always banged on about how relationships need compromise. Today I have realised that I don't actually compromise on alot. I get the other person to compromise themselves on everything to cater to my needs, and my selfishness and ego blind me to think im being a good boyfriend
Its finally my time to start compromising, and to start adapting myself to fit someone else. I have always believed that the other person will love you, for you, so you shouldnt have to change. I am a firm believer in that. Never ever change yourself for someone else. If its personality, attitude, looks - these are things that are yours, and shouldnt change for anyone else. However, certain things you have to change in your lifestyle to cater the other persons needs. This is something I will try to start doing now. Two people fall in love with eachother, but dont assume that it is because you are perfect. No one is perfect. I am far from perfect, but if you believe the other person is perfect then you should be able to alter a few things to help that person understand how perfect you think they are.
My girlfriend Harri, is in my eyes completely perfect. And it hurts me to see her so insecure, especially about how she looks. In my eyes, she looks drop dead gorgeous. And this is when she's in PJ's with her hair tied back with no make up on. If i have to change a few things in my life to make her feel like that then i will, because how i act now, even if i think im doing no wrong, can be misconstrued and make her feel insecure.
I'm willing to change and challenge myself to become a better person and more importantly a better boyfriend.
24/12/2011
24/03/2012
24/??/20?? <-- i wonder what beholds our relationship next :)
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